Ted & Joan Kennedy: Camelot's Casualty
The pressure of being a Kennedy wife, serial infidelity, and Chappaquiddick drove her to alcoholism and eventually divorce
Key Facts
What Happened
Joan Bennett was a beautiful, musically talented debutante when she married Ted Kennedy in 1958, becoming part of America's most famous political family. She was 22 years old and had no idea what she was signing up for. The Kennedy family expected absolute loyalty, public perfection, and silence about private suffering. Joan would endure all of it, at devastating personal cost.
The marriage was marred by Ted's serial infidelity and the Kennedy family's relentless public pressure. Joan suffered three miscarriages, which she attributed partly to the stress of her husband's behavior. Then came Chappaquiddick in 1969, when Ted drove his car off a bridge on Martha's Vineyard, killing passenger Mary Jo Kopechne. Joan was forced to appear publicly supporting her husband while privately devastated. The incident intensified her already serious drinking problem.
Joan's alcoholism became public after a drunk-driving arrest in 1974. She entered treatment multiple times but struggled with sobriety. When Ted ran for president in 1980, Joan campaigned for him despite their separation, appearing gaunt and fragile on the campaign trail. The couple announced their divorce in 1981, and it was finalized on December 20, 1982, on grounds of 'irretrievable breakdown.' Joan received a cash settlement, the Squaw Island home near the Kennedy compound, and alimony.
Joan spent the rest of her life battling alcoholism, with repeated DUI arrests and court-ordered guardianships. She died in 2025 at age 89. Her story became a cautionary tale about the impossible pressures placed on political wives and the devastating health consequences of staying in a destructive marriage for too long. The Kennedy mystique that once seemed so glamorous had consumed her.
Legal Breakdown: Addiction and Divorce
Addiction and Marital Breakdown
Joan's alcoholism was both a symptom of marital dysfunction and a contributing factor to the divorce. Courts consider substance abuse when making custody and support decisions. However, addiction is increasingly viewed as a medical condition rather than moral failure, and courts may order treatment rather than simply punishing the addicted spouse.
Irretrievable Breakdown Standard
Massachusetts allowed divorce on grounds of 'irretrievable breakdown,' a no-fault standard that does not require proving specific misconduct. This spared both parties from having Ted's infidelities and Joan's alcoholism aired in court, though both were well known publicly.
Powerful Family Pressure
The Kennedy family's political interests created enormous pressure on Joan to remain in the marriage and present a united front. Family pressure to stay in a dysfunctional marriage is a form of emotional coercion. Courts and therapists increasingly recognize that family systems can perpetuate individual suffering.
What This Means for Your Divorce
- →Addiction that develops during a marriage is often a symptom of deeper marital problems. Address the root cause, not just the symptom.
- →Staying in a destructive marriage for the sake of a powerful family's image can destroy your health. Your well-being matters more than any dynasty's reputation.
- →If you are struggling with addiction during a divorce, seek treatment immediately. Courts view active recovery efforts favorably in custody decisions.
- →No family name, no amount of prestige, is worth sacrificing your mental and physical health. Joan Kennedy's story is a warning about the cost of silence.
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