Princess Sayako of Japan: The Princess Who Left Royalty for Love — and Received ¥152.5 Million to Do It
She gave up her imperial title and divine status to marry a city bureaucrat — Japan’s modern fairy tale in reverse
Key Facts
What Happened
Princess Sayako, the only daughter of Emperor Akihito and Empress Michiko, made a choice in 2005 that fascinated Japan and the world. She fell in love with Yoshiki Kuroda, a mid-level Tokyo city government employee who had been a childhood friend. Under Japan’s Imperial Household Law, female members of the imperial family must leave the family if they marry a commoner. There is no exception.
On November 15, 2005, Sayako married Kuroda in a private ceremony at the Imperial Hotel in Tokyo. At the moment of marriage, she ceased to be a princess. She was stripped of her imperial title, removed from the Imperial Household Register, and became a private citizen named Sayako Kuroda. Her divine ancestry — the Japanese imperial family claims an unbroken line from the sun goddess Amaterasu — was, in legal terms, severed.
The Imperial Household Agency provided Sayako with a one-time settlement of ¥152.5 million (approximately $1.3 million at the time). This was not a divorce settlement but rather a transition payment meant to help a woman who had lived her entire life within the imperial compound adjust to civilian life. She had never held a job, managed personal finances, or lived outside palace grounds.
Sayako adapted quietly to commoner life. She worked part-time at a museum and later at the Yamashina Institute for Ornithology, reflecting her father’s lifelong interest in marine biology. The case reignited debate about Japan’s imperial succession law, which only allows male succession and requires women to leave for marriage. When Princess Mako married commoner Kei Komuro in 2021, she declined the settlement entirely — the first imperial woman ever to do so.
Legal Breakdown: Royal Exit Settlements
Imperial Household Law: Gender Asymmetry
Japan’s Imperial Household Law requires female members to leave the imperial family upon marrying a commoner, while male members can marry commoners who then become part of the family. This gender asymmetry has been debated for decades and is tied to the male-only succession rule.
Exit Settlements as Financial Protection
The ¥152.5 million payment was designed to ensure Sayako could live independently. Similar structures exist in various contexts: severance from family businesses, trust distributions upon leaving a family, and golden parachute arrangements. The principle is that someone leaving a privileged position needs a financial bridge.
Voluntary Surrender of Status
Sayako’s situation is legally analogous to voluntarily surrendering rights in exchange for something else (in this case, the right to marry freely). Courts in many jurisdictions evaluate whether such surrenders were truly voluntary and whether the compensation was adequate.
What This Means for Your Divorce
- →Leaving a family structure (royal, business, or otherwise) often comes with financial terms. Negotiate them carefully before making the leap.
- →Gender-based legal distinctions in marriage and inheritance still exist in many countries. Know the laws that apply to you.
- →A transition payment is not the same as what you’re entitled to. Understand the difference between a settlement and a gift.
- →Sometimes choosing love over status or wealth is the right decision — but make it with full legal understanding of the consequences.
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