Edith Wharton & Teddy Wharton: The Novelist Who Escaped a Marriage of Embezzlement and Madness
He embezzled $50,000 from her trust to keep a mistress. She wrote about it.
Key Facts
What Happened
Edith Newbold Jones married Edward 'Teddy' Robbins Wharton on April 29, 1885, in a marriage between two members of old New York society. The match was never intellectually compatible — Teddy was an outdoorsman and sportsman who could not engage with Edith's literary brilliance. The marriage produced no children, and Edith later implied that their intimate life was virtually nonexistent. She poured her frustrations into her writing, producing novels that would earn her the Pulitzer Prize.
By the early 1900s, Teddy's mental health deteriorated significantly. He was diagnosed with what was then called 'neurasthenia' — a catch-all term for various mental health conditions. More devastatingly, Edith discovered that Teddy had embezzled $50,000 from her trust funds (equivalent to roughly $1.5 million today) to set up a mistress in a Boston apartment. The betrayal was double: financial theft compounded by infidelity. Teddy had also engaged in verbal abuse and violent outbursts.
Edith moved to France in 1911, where divorce laws were significantly more lenient than in the United States. She sold their beloved estate, The Mount, in Lenox, Massachusetts, and Teddy was institutionalized in 1912. The divorce was granted in Paris in 1913 on grounds of Teddy's adultery, after 28 years of marriage. Edith recovered her finances and never remarried, instead maintaining a long affair with journalist Morton Fullerton.
Edith Wharton's divorce, though devastating, freed her to produce her greatest literary works, including The Age of Innocence (1920), which won the Pulitzer Prize. Her experience with marital unhappiness, financial betrayal, and the constraints of high society deeply informed her fiction. She demonstrated that divorce, even in an era when it was deeply stigmatized, could be the gateway to a more authentic and productive life.
Legal Breakdown: When a spouse's mental illness and financial misconduct collide
Spousal Embezzlement and Trust Fund Theft
Teddy's theft from Edith's trust funds represents a form of financial abuse that remains common today. When one spouse has access to the other's financial accounts and misappropriates funds, it can constitute both a civil wrong (conversion) and a criminal offense (embezzlement). Modern divorce courts can order restitution, unequal property division, and criminal referrals in cases of spousal financial theft.
Forum Shopping for Favorable Divorce Laws
Edith's decision to divorce in France rather than the United States was an early example of 'forum shopping' — choosing the jurisdiction with the most favorable laws. This remains a significant strategy in modern divorce, particularly in international cases. Residency requirements, property division rules, and alimony standards vary dramatically between jurisdictions.
Mental Illness and Divorce
Teddy's mental health deterioration complicated the divorce. Modern family law recognizes mental illness as a factor in divorce proceedings but also protects individuals with mental health conditions from exploitation. Courts may appoint guardians ad litem, require mental health evaluations, and ensure that a spouse with mental illness receives fair treatment in the divorce process.
What This Means for Your Divorce
- →Monitor your financial accounts — spousal embezzlement is more common than people think
- →If you need to divorce internationally, research which jurisdiction's laws are most favorable
- →Mental health issues do not excuse financial abuse or infidelity
- →Divorce can be the beginning of your most productive and fulfilling chapter
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