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Your Spouse Is Hiding Money. Here's How to Find It.

Studies suggest that assets are hidden in as many as 30–40% of divorces. If your spouse controls the finances, owns a business, or has suddenly become secretive about money — trust your instincts. Here's what to look for and exactly how to uncover it.

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Warning Signs Your Spouse Is Hiding Assets

Suddenly "broke" or claiming business losses

A business owner who always made good money now suddenly claims the business is failing — right around divorce time.

New P.O. box or mail going elsewhere

Financial statements, tax documents, or bank mail being redirected to an office, friend's house, or P.O. box.

Cash withdrawals or lifestyle doesn't match income

Large or frequent ATM withdrawals, or they're spending like usual but reporting lower income on paper.

Overpaying taxes or creditors

Deliberately overpaying the IRS, credit cards, or vendors to get refunds or credits after the divorce is finalized.

"Loans" to friends or family

Transferring large sums to a friend, sibling, or parent — who will conveniently "pay it back" after the divorce.

New accounts, investments, or cryptocurrency

Opening accounts at banks or brokerages you've never heard of, buying cryptocurrency, or investing through offshore platforms.

The 10 Most Common Ways Spouses Hide Assets

1

Transferring money to a "friend" or relative

The money is gifted or "loaned" to someone who holds it until the divorce is over, then returns it.

2

Underreporting income (especially cash businesses)

Restaurants, construction, freelancing — any business with cash revenue can underreport. They claim to make less than they actually do.

3

Deferring salary, bonuses, or contracts

Asking an employer to delay a bonus, raise, or stock option vesting until after the divorce is finalized.

4

Overpaying the IRS

Paying extra taxes now to get a refund later — after the divorce, when they don't have to split it.

5

Creating fake debt

Claiming to owe money to a friend or business partner (who doesn't actually expect repayment) to make their net worth appear lower.

6

Buying expensive items that are hard to value

Art, antiques, collectibles, custom vehicles — things whose value is subjective and easy to understate on a financial disclosure.

7

Cryptocurrency and digital assets

Bitcoin and other crypto stored in private wallets can be nearly invisible unless you know what to look for.

8

Custodial accounts for children

Opening custodial accounts (UTMA/UGMA) for children and loading them with marital funds — which they then control as custodian.

9

Shell companies or new business entities

Creating LLCs or trusts to hold assets. The money is technically owned by the entity, not the person — but the person controls it.

10

Safe deposit boxes and physical cash

Old-fashioned but effective: hiding cash, gold, or valuable items in a safe deposit box, safe, or hidden location.

How to Uncover Hidden Assets

You don't have to be a detective. The legal system has powerful tools specifically designed for this:

1. Mandatory financial disclosure

Both spouses are legally required to disclose ALL assets, income, and debts under oath. Lying on this is perjury — a criminal offense.

2. Subpoenas for financial records

Your attorney can subpoena banks, brokerages, employers, and the IRS for records. Your spouse can't stop this — it's a court order.

3. Forensic accountant

A forensic accountant specializes in tracing hidden assets. They analyze tax returns, bank statements, business records, and lifestyle patterns to find discrepancies. Courts respect their findings.

4. Depositions

Your attorney can depose your spouse (question them under oath) about specific financial matters. Anything they say can be cross-referenced with documents.

5. Lifestyle analysis

If your spouse claims to earn $50K but drives a new BMW, takes luxury vacations, and pays $4,000/month rent — a forensic accountant can prove the math doesn't add up.

What Happens When Hidden Assets Are Found

Judges take hidden assets very seriously. Consequences can include:

  • 100% of the hidden asset awarded to the other spouse (not 50/50 — all of it)
  • Attorney fees and forensic accountant fees paid by the hiding spouse
  • Contempt of court charges with potential jail time
  • Perjury charges if they lied on financial disclosures
  • Unfavorable rulings on custody and other matters — judges don't trust dishonest parties

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Legal Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. If you suspect your spouse is hiding assets, consult with a family law attorney who can advise you based on your state's laws and your specific circumstances.