How Much Does Divorce Cost in New Jersey?
The cost of divorce in New Jersey ranges from under $500 (DIY uncontested) to $50,000+ (high-conflict contested). The filing fee is $300–$350. Here's a full breakdown of what to expect and how to keep costs down.
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Court filing fee
$300–$350Each spouse pays a filing fee. Fee waiver available if you qualify based on income.
Attorney fees
$5,000–$50,000+Uncontested with no kids: $3,000–$7,000. With kids and property: $10,000–$25,000. High-conflict: $30,000+.
Mediator
$3,000–$8,000Private mediators charge $200–$500/hour. Court-provided custody mediation may be free.
Process server
$50–$150To formally serve your spouse with divorce papers. Sheriff service may be cheaper.
DIY / self-filed
$300–$350 + $0–$500If you agree on everything, you can file yourself using court forms. Online prep services charge $150–$500.
Fee Waiver: Can't Afford Filing Fees?
New Jersey offers fee waivers for people who can't afford court costs. You typically qualify if you:
- ✓Receive public benefits (SNAP, Medicaid, SSI, TANF)
- ✓Your income is at or below 125–150% of the federal poverty level
- ✓Paying court fees would prevent you from affording basic necessities
Ask the court clerk for the fee waiver form when you file. The waiver typically covers filing fees, service costs, and other court fees.
How to File for Divorce in New Jersey
Check residency requirements
You or your spouse must have lived in New Jersey for 12 months.
Complete the divorce forms
Get forms from your county courthouse or the New Jersey court website. Many counties have free self-help centers.
File with the court
File in person or online (if available). Pay the $300–$350 filing fee or submit a fee waiver.
Serve your spouse
Have someone over 18 (not you) deliver copies. Use a process server, sheriff, or a friend/family member.
Exchange financial disclosures
Both spouses must share complete financial information. This is mandatory.
Reach agreement or go to court
Negotiate a settlement, try mediation, or if you can't agree, the court schedules a trial.
Ways to Reduce Costs
Agree on as much as possible before involving attorneys
Every hour of attorney argument costs $300–$500+.
Use mediation instead of litigation
Average mediated divorce: $5,000–$10,000. Average litigated: $20,000–$50,000.
Consider a limited-scope attorney
Hire a lawyer for specific tasks only (reviewing agreements, court appearances).
Use the court's self-help center
Free assistance with forms, procedures, and basic legal questions.
Request your spouse pay your fees
Courts can order the higher-earning spouse to contribute to the other's attorney fees.
Be organized
Gather financial documents yourself. Every hour your attorney spends hunting costs you.
Every situation is different
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Legal Disclaimer: This article covers New Jersey divorce law for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Laws change frequently. Always consult a licensed New Jersey family law attorney for advice specific to your situation.