Conciliation
A court-sponsored process where a neutral third party helps divorcing spouses explore whether reconciliation is possible or, if not, reach an amicable settlement.
Understanding Conciliation
Some states require or offer conciliation services before a divorce can proceed. A conciliation counselor meets with both parties to determine if the marriage can be saved. If reconciliation is not possible, the counselor may help the couple agree on key issues like custody and property division. Conciliation is different from mediation in that it may initially focus on saving the marriage rather than settling the divorce. It is typically free or low-cost as a court service and can delay the divorce process by several weeks.
Real-World Examples
The court orders both spouses to attend three conciliation sessions before the divorce case can proceed to trial.
Related Terms
A voluntary dispute resolution process where both spouses and their attorneys agree to negotiate a settlement without going to court. If negotiations fail, both attorneys must withdraw.
Cooling-Off PeriodA mandatory waiting period required by some states between filing for divorce and the final decree. It is intended to prevent impulsive decisions.
Contested DivorceA divorce where the spouses cannot agree on one or more key issues — such as custody, property division, or support — and a judge must decide.
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