Parallel Parenting
A co-parenting approach for high-conflict situations where each parent operates independently with minimal direct communication.
Understanding Parallel Parenting
Parallel parenting reduces conflict by minimizing contact between hostile ex-spouses while still allowing both to be involved in their children's lives. Each parent makes day-to-day decisions during their parenting time without consulting the other. Communication is limited to written formats like email or parenting apps, and exchanges happen in neutral locations. Major decisions may be divided by domain (one parent handles medical, the other educational) or require mediation. Parallel parenting is often recommended when co-parenting with a narcissist or high-conflict personality.
Real-World Examples
The court ordered parallel parenting with all communication through the TalkingParents app after repeated conflicts during in-person custody exchanges.
Related Terms
A detailed written agreement specifying how parents will share custody, visitation, decision-making, and responsibilities for their children after divorce.
Parenting CoordinatorA mental health or legal professional appointed by the court to help high-conflict parents resolve day-to-day parenting disputes without returning to court.
Joint CustodyAn arrangement where both parents share decision-making authority (legal custody) and/or physical time (physical custody) with their children.
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