Mediator
A trained neutral professional who facilitates negotiations between divorcing spouses to help them reach voluntary agreements.
Understanding Mediator
Mediators can be attorneys, retired judges, therapists, or other professionals with specialized training in dispute resolution. Unlike a judge, the mediator has no power to impose decisions — they guide the conversation and help identify solutions acceptable to both sides. Good mediators are skilled at managing emotions, reframing positions, and finding creative solutions. Each spouse should still have their own attorney review any agreements reached in mediation. Mediator fees typically range from $100-$500 per hour and are usually split between the parties.
Real-World Examples
They chose a mediator who was a retired family court judge, paying $350 per hour split equally between them.
Related Terms
A voluntary process where a neutral third party helps divorcing spouses negotiate and reach agreements on disputed issues.
Parenting CoordinatorA mental health or legal professional appointed by the court to help high-conflict parents resolve day-to-day parenting disputes without returning to court.
Collaborative DivorceA voluntary dispute resolution process where both spouses and their attorneys agree to negotiate a settlement without going to court. If negotiations fail, both attorneys must withdraw.
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This definition is provided for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Divorce laws and terminology may vary by state and jurisdiction.
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