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Germany Divorce Guide: Laws, Process & Costs

Everything you need to know about divorce in Germany.15 in-depth guides covering your rights, costs, and options.

Legal System

Civil law

Divorce Type

No-fault (1 year separation)

Waiting Period

1 year separation (3 years if contested)

Average Cost

€1,000–€20,000+

Property System

Zugewinngemeinschaft (community of accrued gains)

Residency

Habitual residence in Germany

Divorce Law in Germany: Overview

German divorce law requires a mandatory one-year separation period (Trennungsjahr) before divorce can be filed. The system is strictly no-fault since 1976. Both spouses must be represented by their own lawyer — this is a legal requirement, not optional. Germany's most distinctive feature is the mandatory pension equalization (Versorgungsausgleich), where all pension rights earned during marriage are split exactly 50/50. Since the 2008 reform, post-divorce maintenance has been significantly curtailed, with courts emphasizing each spouse's obligation to become self-sufficient.

Key Legislation

Bürgerliches Gesetzbuch (BGB) §§1564-1568

Core divorce provisions: grounds, procedure, and hardship clause.

Versorgungsausgleichsgesetz (VersAusglG)

Mandatory pension equalization — all pension rights during marriage split 50/50.

BGB §§1569-1586b

Post-divorce maintenance (Unterhalt) — reformed in 2008 to limit duration.

FamFG (Gesetz über das Verfahren in Familiensachen)

Procedural law for all family court matters.

Grounds for Divorce

  • Sole ground: irretrievable breakdown of marriage (Scheitern der Ehe)
  • 1 year separation: presumed irretrievable if both agree
  • 3 years separation: irrefutably presumed irretrievable (no consent needed)
  • Hardship clause (Härteklausel): divorce can be refused if it would cause exceptional hardship to one spouse or children

How to Divorce in Germany: Step-by-Step

1

Trennungsjahr (separation year)

Must live separately for at least 1 year. Can be under the same roof if truly living separate lives.

2

Hire a lawyer (Pflicht)

Each spouse MUST have their own attorney. This is required by law.

3

File divorce petition (Scheidungsantrag)

Filed at the local Family Court (Familiengericht).

4

Financial disclosure

Both spouses exchange pension information for Versorgungsausgleich.

5

Oral hearing (Anhörung)

Both spouses must appear before the judge personally.

6

Divorce decree (Scheidungsbeschluss)

Judge pronounces divorce. Becomes final after 1 month if no appeal.

Recent Legal Reforms

2008

Major alimony reform: post-divorce maintenance now limited, emphasis on self-sufficiency (Eigenverantwortung).

2009

New Versorgungsausgleichsgesetz modernized pension equalization.

2017

Online divorce applications allowed for the first time.

What Makes Germany Divorce Unique

  • Both spouses must have their own lawyer — mandatory dual representation
  • Versorgungsausgleich: all pension rights during marriage are automatically split 50/50
  • Zugewinngemeinschaft: each spouse keeps their own property but 'gains' during marriage are equalized
  • Legal fees are calculated based on income, not hours — making costs more predictable
  • The Trennungsjahr can be served under the same roof if living 'separate lives' (getrennt von Tisch und Bett)

Germany Divorce Statistics

~35-40% of marriages

Divorce rate

6-12 months after separation year

Average duration

~52% women, 40% men, 8% jointly

Who files

€1,500-€3,000 per spouse

Average cost (agreed)

€10,000-€20,000+

Average cost (contested)

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Legal Disclaimer: This article covers Germany divorce law for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Laws change frequently. Always consult a qualified family law attorney or solicitor in Germany for advice specific to your situation.