Custody & Parenting

Right of First Refusal

A custody provision requiring one parent to offer the other parent childcare time before using a third-party babysitter.

Understanding Right of First Refusal

Right of first refusal means that if the custodial parent cannot personally care for the child during their parenting time (beyond a specified duration, often 4+ hours), they must first offer that time to the other parent before hiring a babysitter or leaving the child with relatives. This provision maximizes each parent's time with the child and is commonly included in parenting plans. It can also reduce childcare costs.

Real-World Examples

Their parenting plan included right of first refusal for any absence longer than four hours.

Related Terms

Shared Custody

A custody arrangement where both parents have significant, roughly equal parenting time with the children.

Visitation

The scheduled time a non-custodial parent spends with their child, as outlined in a court order or parenting plan.

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This definition is provided for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Divorce laws and terminology may vary by state and jurisdiction.

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