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Custody & Parenting

Custody

The legal arrangement determining which parent a child lives with (physical custody) and who makes major life decisions for the child (legal custody) after divorce.

Understanding Custody

Custody has two components: physical custody (where the child resides) and legal custody (authority over major decisions about education, healthcare, and religion). Each can be sole (one parent) or joint (shared). Joint legal custody is common even when one parent has primary physical custody. Courts determine custody based on the best interests of the child standard. Custody orders can be modified if there is a material change in circumstances. Most states now favor maximizing both parents' involvement unless safety concerns exist.

Real-World Examples

The court awards joint legal custody and primary physical custody to the mother, with the father having parenting time every other weekend and one weeknight.

State-by-State Variations

Some states like Kentucky and Arizona presume joint custody. Others like New York have no presumption. Terminology varies — some states use 'parenting time' instead of 'custody.'

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This definition is provided for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Divorce laws and terminology may vary by state and jurisdiction.

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