Bird Nesting
A custody arrangement where children stay in the family home while parents rotate in and out according to a custody schedule. Also called nesting.
Understanding Bird Nesting
Bird nesting prioritizes children's stability by keeping them in one home while the parents alternate living there. When not in the family home, each parent stays at a separate residence. This arrangement can ease the emotional transition for children, especially right after separation. However, it requires a high level of cooperation between parents, is expensive (maintaining three residences), and is typically used as a temporary arrangement. Clear rules about household responsibilities, guests, and expenses are essential for it to work.
Real-World Examples
The parents agree to bird nesting for six months, with each parent spending one week in the family home while the other stays at a rented apartment.
Related Terms
The shared responsibility of raising children after divorce, where both parents actively participate in major decisions and daily care according to a custody arrangement.
Custodial ParentThe parent with whom the child primarily lives and who has primary physical custody. The custodial parent typically receives child support from the non-custodial parent.
Best Interests of the ChildThe legal standard used by courts to make all custody and visitation decisions. The child's wellbeing takes priority over both parents' preferences.
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